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Haha.. N now, my complain corner.. Im working on a sunday, which is the 7th Oct.. Around evening time ba.. There this Indian lady who brought her two daughters to our shop to shop. Den the husband is waiting outside for them. The elder daughter is dressed nicely with a matching hair band and the younger daughter hav very curly short hair and wearing t-shirt and denim skirt. If I didnt see the skirt, I would tot tat she was a boy. And so after picking up their shopping, the mother went to the counter to pay up. At this time, the elder daughter saw some nice hair clips and keep pestering the mother to buy but she refused. And so the daughter keep on crying and went outside to her father and start complaining about her mother very loudly.When the mother went out of the shop, she shouted 'stupid mother' and pushed her at the back and this make her move forward by 2 steps(This shows how great the force was to be able to make her move.) Even this, her mum ad dad never scold her or say anything tat cannot do this and that. When the sis say something to her, she can shout back 'shut up'. Such ill bred.

And I remembered once when Im eating and beside was this mother(chinese family) bring her kids out. The kids were playing on their own and their mother was talking to another friend. And here comes a topic of her dressing up her daughter and she finds it funny and share with her friend.(Im not eavesdropping.Its just that they talk too loud) And suddenly the daughter tell the mother not to say but the mother just ignore her. Then, the daughter just shout at her mum not to say. The mother got up and start to beat her and scold this "Im your mother! Show some respect. Im not for you to scold!' This are powerful words and I think the mother was right. Next, the daughter just sit there and cry. But I think this is the correct way to teach a child.

They have to be beaten and scold to learn their mistake. But this dosent mean tat parents can abuse their child. Continuously beating is not the way. Scold and hit them abit is alright. If the incident was to be taught until they reach home, I dont think the parents will remember, even if they remember, the kids may not and they may not learn their lesson. So, its better to teach on the spot. (Im not racist. Im just stating wat I saw and feel!)